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🕯 A Place To Be With OTHERS Who Are Grieving! WE support each other.

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SO GOOD to hear from you Ms. Idaho aka Cadee @Cadee2719  💃💃💃

 

Yikes, Mountain Lion!!!  😱😱😱

 

Lol, oh NO - I look out my door before I step out to check for snakes here in Virginia. And I do not care IF they are friendly/lol  🤣😂

 

They say Black Snakes are harmless and good for the environment. Well good, but they NEED to be somewhere else, thank you. When I go outside to feed Mr. No Name, I have my SNAKE SHOES on. NO sandals. My feet are covered up.

 

Oh my goodness, I wish you would post pictures of your birds. I bet that is one BEAUTIFUL site.  👍👍👍

 

I am SO SORRY about your medical stuff and that is one thing I am NOT looking forward to = changing states. Lol, was TRYING to convince my daughter to return to Virginia but NO - declared she left Florida ONE time and NOT repeating. She was born there and she needs to be their Poster Child.

 

Luv you SO MUCH,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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😴  Sweet Dreams Everyone  🤗🤗🤗

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‌‌‌🗣‌‌‌ OUR DAILY CHATS!!!

 

[1] Stop by to chat when you feel up to it. WE share OUR good  💃💃💃  and/or bad news.  😭😭😭

 

[2] NO rules or judgement here.

 

[3] We support EVERYONE who stops by.

 

[4] Nicole stops by EVERY DAY to wish everyone Good Morning, Goodnight and to share whatever is going on in her life EACH DAY. YOU are ALWAYS welcome to do the same.  👍👍👍

 

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[6] Free AARP "Grief & Loss" Online Events EVERY MONTH for members and non-members. Nicole posts the dates and times.

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How are you doing?  🤔

 

73 degrees here in Cave Spring, Virginia with a HIGH of 93.  😱😱😱

 

Yes, Summer is officially here!!! And as my username states - TOO HOT.  😭😭😭

 

Any vacations or road trips?

 

Jonibee @jonibee , YOU are one strong and caring lady. I hope you will be back when you get all those medical things sorted out.

 

Cadee @Cadee2719 , I bet you have been ENJOYING the birds who visit your feeder. It was a feeder??? Lol, yes - this Old Lady forgot.  🙄🙄🙄  Do you have any FAVORITE recipes Ms. Gourmet Cook?

 

My daughter is still job hunting in Florida for an Engineering job. Still REFUSING to leave Florida for BETTER job prospects. She left an AWESOME job in Arlington, Virginia and headed back to Florida. She is still VERY ACTIVE with her volunteer work at her old High School and NSBE. Yes, she is back to chatting with her Old Ma [me].  💃💃💃

 

Marcy @MarcyW882921 , I bet you have been SINGING up a storm. Would luv to hear about your EXCITING life when you can. Hope your roof is nearly finished and you are well.  👍👍👍

 

MC @mc6844 , luv your NEW discussion and look forward to more.  🙃

 

Allen @Therapist4u , keep laughing my friend and HAPPY Sunday.  🙃

 

Well, Ms. G left out water and food for my boy when she was last here on Friday. Lol, LAST NIGHT [Saturday] it took me going over there AFTER he totally IGNORED me when I called to SEE this. There has been NO FOOD with her moving. But he was a gentleman and did give me some luv and had a FEW bites of food I had for him BEFORE hopping up on her porch to eat. Aha, I told him - you got your PREFERRED menu I see./lol  🤣😂

 

He use to have her running to store to get chicken because his mouth was sore. Nope, Ms. G, he just spoilt and refuses the cheap cat food she had been buying once he won her over last year when his humans (her neighbors) left him behind. He will miss her I know when she is all moved. I heard through my neighbor [Ms. In Everybody's Biz  🙄] that she is NOT taking cat. This lady lives in a Studio Apt like me and has the cutest cat named Sweetie. Sweetie does NOT like Mr. No Name and RAN him off./lol  🤣😂

 

Ms. G or her son has NOT told me about moving, this neighbor did - I am glad she did so I knew Mr. No Name had NO food. Lol, I keep my Nosey Neighbor at a distance so MY BIZ is not all over the apartment complex. Luv her CUTE cat!!!  👍👍👍  She is suppose to be INDOOR but darts out her Mom's front door every chance she gets.

 

Everyone FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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😴  Sweet Dreams Everyone  🤗🤗🤗

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Guys, please keep our Jonibee @jonibee in your thoughts and prayers.

 

Jonibee, was SO GOOD getting a PM from you just now.

 

Luv you VERY MUCH,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Good Morning Marcy @MarcyW882921 , hope you are well. A quick FYI for you as I know you stay SUPER BUSY. I do clean out this forum so do not think you are losing it when you stop by and stuff is NO LONGER here. Just use your AARP email COPIES as they are reliable and a true copy of my ORIGINAL posts. Lol, I guess even in my OLD age I like stuff organized. ONLY my old posts that NO ONE has responded to will be DELETED. 📸  A .gif for YOU  🤗🤗🤗

 

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I sent Marcy @MarcyW882921 a PM. Lol, I am so use to her being too busy to stop by - but thought of her today. She stopped by when I was locked out for 2nd time.  🙄🙄🙄

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How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

I had a rough night but survived I guess. Now to get my mind on track to see what TODAY has in store for me.  👍👍👍

 

Lol, well my boy played hard to get last night. Didnot see him on the sidewalk in front of Ms. G's Front Porch at 10pm. His usual time to be all HANDSOME and pose for us all - lounging.

 

So I went over, calling him several times.  🙄🙄🙄

 

He eventually walks out from wherever he was  🤔🤔🤔  and looks at me and his food dish in my hand. Instead of rushing to EAT when I put it down close to him - he walks away, lays down and totally ignores me and food.

 

Aha, in one of his moods/lol  🤣😂

 

Anyway, got him to eat after several minutes of sweet talk. That's my spoilt boy...

 

Ms. G's son just arrived. Early and a Saturday. Must mean she will be here shortly and maybe it is the U-haul truck day. Will be interesting when NEW people move in = will they tolerate the cat hanging around, will he continue to lounge on the sidewalk over there. That will now be 2 sets of HUMANS who have left him BEHIND once Ms. G moves. 1st set was his OWNERS. 2nd set Ms. G who lives 1 door away from where they use to live. She is NOT here at nights THIS MONTH and pops in now and again. I am 66 and she is older than me, so maybe her son is doing ALL the packing for her.

 

Everyone FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY,

Luv you ALL Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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(Saturday 6/22/24 7:54am ET)

 

Good Morning @Underbat , I am posting this NOW before I get locked out again.

 

[1] My Profile was NOT there just NOW when I arrived to post my Good Morning to the group. In the past, this was the 1st thing that happened. And YES, I was able to log out and log back in = My Profile is back for now.

 

[2] In the past, as the day/night progressed AFTER this 1st issue - My Profile went BYE BYE for days = could log into forum, but could NOT post.

 

Thanks,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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😴  Sweet Dreams Everyone  🤗🤗🤗

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Thanks MC @mc6844 and they will NEVER change = Indians who feel they own the property.

 

I am looking at my OPTIONS while I WAIT to see what happens in Florida with my laid off daughter.

 

Luv you VERY MUCH,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

 


[*** MC @mc6844 wrote:

Thank you Nicole for all the good topics. I hope your neighbors grow quieter and easier to live with. I've heard that we can't change things but prayer changes things. I know waiting for things to change is not easy. Take care! ***]


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Hi MC @mc6844 , yes - AARP fixed that glitch yesterday.

 

Luv you VERY MUCH,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

 


[*** MC @mc6844 wrote:

I hope you are all well on the forum. I wasn't able to login. But I tried again today and it was ok. ***]


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👋  How are you guys doing?

 

68 degrees here in Cave Spring, Virginia.

 

Well the weekend is here and I hope everyone has a GREAT one!!!  💃💃💃

 

Find YOUR PEACE TODAY,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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[Thursday 6/20/24] Hi MC @mc6844 , Cadee@Cadee2719 , Allen @Therapist4u and Marcy @MarcyW882921  - IF you can (NO pressure as usual) can you guys stop by my Discussion in the Computer Forum. I need your help. Thanks and discussion link BELOW. Nicole  👵

 

https://community.aarp.org/t5/Computer-Questions-Tips/What-Device-s-and-Browser-s-Do-YOU-use-in-this...

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THANK YOU AARP for fixing your glitch!!!  💃💃💃

 

How is everyone doing?  🤔

 

UPDATE on Mr. No Name!!!

 

I found out through the grapevine that Ms. G is moving = reason for her car NOT being here on a regular basis.

 

Finally got his SPOILT b.tt to walk over to my porch TONIGHT, saving me having to walk over to her porch.

 

Been reading up on Feral Cats and finally figured out 10pm is HIS TIME TO LOUNGE on the sidewalk in front of her porch.

 

Now to HOPE he comes over AGAIN tomorrow night when I call him. Lol, probably look my way and NOT move.  🤣😂

 

He has ADDED so much to my life. Less time to miss my daughter in Florida and less time to worry about her being laid off. My boy...

 

Luv you ALL,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Welcome back Nicole 👏   I caught two feral cats many years ago, got them fixed and then gave them to my son.   It took many years of patience and love to convert them into friendly, loving, devoted pets.  They actually became indoor cats and lived to a ripe old age.   Wish you luck with  him.  Now at his new home he has ANOTHER cat that comes to visit him!!  

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I ADDED MORE TEXT @Cadee2719  Thanks Cadee !!!

 

Lol, he is more moody than I am. I never know IF I will be ignored or luved.  🤣😂

 

LAST night after days of him eating and walking away  🙄🙄🙄  he came over in BETWEEN bites to luv on me.  💃💃💃

 

He is a very luving guy when he wants to be. I just HOPE the new folks like him as Ms. G's son hates him.  😤😤😤

 

I am GLAD I was paying attention to her porch and noticed right AFTER Memorial Day her car was NOT here. I had assumed maybe vacation. Anyway, she and son come and go with boxes. Guessing a U-haul at some point soon. As she has NOT told me of her move, I cannot ask about his bed and mansion [a huge plastic container with a hole in one side with his bed]. While I feed him at 10pm every night, I have to be VERY CAREFUL with the folks out here. Sad set who would report me to Office = Pet deposit was $300 before property was sold last year 2023. Probably more now.  😱😱😱

 

▶️*** He was fixed, one of the ladies @MsStretch in another forum had seen his ear in the picture I had posted there. One of his ears was clipped. She feeds two ferals, Queen Willie Mae and Prince Giorgio ***◀️

 

SO GOOD to hear from you - thank you SO MUCH!!!  💃💃💃

 

Luv you SO MUCH,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

 


[*** CADEE @Cadee2719 wrote:

Welcome back Nicole 👏   I caught two feral cats many years ago, got them fixed and then gave them to my son.   It took many years of patience and love to convert them into friendly, loving, devoted pets.  They actually became indoor cats and lived to a ripe old age.   Wish you luck with  him.  Now at his new home he has ANOTHER cat that comes to visit him!!  ***]


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(Thursday 6/20/24 10:21pm ET) Oh my goodness, I COULD sign in from 6/12 to 6/19, but could NOT post!!!  🙄🙄🙄

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  Is this site down AGAIN?  Does AARP want to eliminate this site and the people on it?  I don't understand what the problem is and why it happens over and over again.  It would be sad to eliminate a site that has HELPED a lot of people and is viewed by so many.  

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  Nicole, just checking to make sure you are ok.  Be safe.  

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  I am hoping that all of my friends in Florida ARE NOT being affected by the heavy rains.  Be Safe.  I am adjusting to my new weather patterns:  Today it will be 80 and this weekend a cold front from Alaska is moving in!!!  I have learned, wait five minutes and the weather will change.  😀   I love it.

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We got a lot of rain here last week that we desperately needed. Fortunately in my area it didn't cause any flooding. Happy Monday!

 

Marcy

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  Glad to hear you are ok.  Be safe    Hope Nicole is ok and others living in Florida.

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Hi Marcy! @MarcyW882921

We also got a lot of rain here last week that we desperately needed....and it didn't cause any flooding.

Also hope Nicole is OK

Happy Tuesday!

As always, ...Stay safe....&...Take care!

~Allen

 

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📸  Picture Attached  📸  Guys, I broke down TODAY at Walmart and bought Mr. No Name a Cat Feeder and Cat Food. I am now a Cat Mom.

 

Nicole  😱

 

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(1 comment) Marcy @MarcyW882921 , how long should I wait before I send a Search Party to locate you/lol.

 

On the serious side, I know you stay busy.

 

Hope you are well  🤗🤗🤗

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Ha Ha Nicole @SummerIsTooHOT ! I am still here. I had an incredibly busy and wonderful weekend. Tonight I have my regular chorus rehearsal and tomorrow night I have rehearsal for a community chorus that I have joined just for an event later this month. The event is Make Music Day and it happens around the world on June 21st. This is Palm Beach County's first year to participate.

 

Marcy

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