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Grief & Loss Team 🤎🤗

 

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How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

I HOPE everyone slept well last night!!! I did and SO GRATEFUL.  💃💃💃

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Luv you ALL,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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😴  Sweet dreams everyone, Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Oh my goodness Cadee @Cadee2719 , my daughter is trying to send me to an early grave. Laughing NOW, but girl - had a few hours of WORRY. My Diva decided not to check in today and so yours truly texted. No response. Called, left a voicemail. Then kept calling and texting. FINALLY she texts saying she had a ROUGH night. Lol, so I text back that I didnot appreciate all the worry and TRYING to hold off on calling the cops for a Wellness Check. I was going crazy. Anyway, she replies totally hurt that I didnot ask about her ROUGH night. Now keep in mind ever since her 4/11/24 Layoff, she has shutdown = does not want any questions. I need to go to Parenting School I guess/lol  💃💃💃  Can't seem to get it right!!!  🙄🙄🙄  So I am in her Dog House...

 

Hmmm, did your Son find anything?  🤔

 

Also, got your Medical Stuff set up?  🤔

 

Luv you SO MUCH Ms. Idaho,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

It is about 6:30am ET for me.

 

Remember there is a FREE Online Grief & Loss Event TODAY in about 5 hours. Still time to register.  👍👍👍

 

64 degrees, high of 86 today here in Cave Spring, Virginia. Summer is here and LAST day of school TODAY.  😭😭😭

 

Rain starting soon and suppose to rain for holiday on MONDAY. Hope so = my Neighbors From H.ll above me will stay off their balcony.  💃💃💃

 

Well, once again the Scratch Off Ticket Machine at Walmart had NO $1 tickets so yours truly bought one $2 one instead of two $1 ones. Won $2. ADDED to my envelope to cash out next week before heading to Sheetz for gas. IF I calculated correctly  🙄🙄🙄,  I should be getting $179.00. I cash out at Kroger. I AVOID Walmart Customer Service when I can.

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Luv you all,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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😴  Sweet dreams everyone, Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

8am appointment today with my Mechanic to fix my Driver Side Door.  😭😭😭

 

Oh well, lol - too OLD to be climbing in thru the Passenger Side. Best get it FIXED.

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Luv you all,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Yes and next change will be Fall  🙄🙄🙄

 

CONGRATS Marcy @MarcyW882921 !!!  💃💃💃

 

Luv you,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

 


[*** MARCY @MarcyW882921 wrote:

Here we go...another name @SummerIsTooHOT ! I'm back from competition and we came home with two medals. It's always fun, fulfilling, and also tiring. I jumped right into my activities this week, but I'm still not fully recovered.

 

Marcy ***]

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😴  Sweet Dreams Everyone, Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

Walmart today for me.

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Luv you all,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Here we go...another name @SummerIsTooHOT ! I'm back from competition and we came home with two medals. It's always fun, fulfilling, and also tiring. I jumped right into my activities this week, but I'm still not fully recovered.

 

Marcy

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CONGRATS Marcy @MarcyW882921 on coming  home with two medals !!

CONGRATS MarcyCONGRATS Marcy

 Take care ~Allen

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Very nice Allen @SummerIsTooHOT ...thanks!

 

Marcy

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(1 comment) Lol, Allen @Therapist4u - I "think" Marcy @MarcyW882921 inserted my name instead of yours!!!  🙄🙄🙄

 

I luv your posts Allen  💃💃💃

 

Luv you BOTH,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

 


[*** MARCY @MarcyW882921 wrote:

Very nice Allen @SummerIsTooHOT ...thanks!

 

Marcy ***]


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ITS THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS!!👍

LOL!!!

 

THANKS TO BOTH OF YOU

NICOLE @MarcyW882921

AND MARCY  @SummerIsTooHOT

 

HAHAHA😃🙄🙃

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Lol, took me a minute but I see you mixed us up on purpose!!!  😂🤣

 

Take care Allen @Therapist4u ,

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

 


[*** ALLEN @Therapist4u wrote:

ITS THE THOUGHT THAT COUNTS!!👍

LOL!!!

 

THANKS TO BOTH OF YOU

NICOLE @MarcyW882921

AND MARCY  @SummerIsTooHOT

 

HAHAHA😃🙄🙃 ***]


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😴  Dreams are the window to the soul; may yours be filled with love and happiness.

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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may yours be filled with love and happiness too!😊

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Thanks Allen @Therapist4u  🤗🤗🤗

 


[*** ALLEN @Therapist4u wrote:

may yours be filled with love and happiness too!😊

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How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

I hope you made it back safely Marcy @MarcyW882921 .

 

57 degrees here in Cave Spring, Virginia. About 7:50am ET. NO rain finally. Dumpster, mailbox and hopefully my boy Mr. No Name (stray cat adopted by us all, refuses to be indoors). Going to ENJOY THIS WEEK as holiday is Monday, School out soon  😭😭😭  and rain returns.

 

A day to stay in bed and RECOVER from the Weekend From H.ll with my neighbors ABOVE. They went to work at 7am, be gone until 3pm.  💃💃💃

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Luv you all,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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😴  Tonight, may you find the answers you seek within the depths of your dreams.

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

Sundays are one of my FAVORITE days. Why? ONE more day for my Neighbors From H.ll above to return to work until Friday.  💃💃💃

 

I am beginning to emerge from the FOG of dealing with a leak in my Studio Apt's Utility Wall. Still leaks but thanks to Josh, new guy in office - it NO longer comes into my apt.  💃💃💃

 

So yours truly can NOW go out and see what's out there while the youngsters are at work. Lol, got to do this when my Mechanic is OPEN Mondays thru Thursdays. Why? The OTHER Old Lady (2006 Hyundai Elantra) is getting OLD like me (66 this year) and ORIGINAL parts are starting to break. I am fine with this as she is RELIABLE.

 

Luv my Premium AAA Membership = IF needed I can have her towed to my Mechanic within 1 hour of where I live (that allows me to do 1 day trips to surrounding cities within 1 hour from my apt). NO ONE else touches her.

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Luv you all,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Allen @Therapist4u , thanks for CUTE "furbaby" picture.

 

Your Forever Friend,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

 

[*** ALLEN @Therapist4u wrote: 📸  Picture Is Attached  📸

REMEMBER THE SAYING AND PRAYER ABOUT STUFF AND PEOPLE WE HAVE NO CONTROL OVER?

God, grant me the....

God, grant me the PURRrenityGod, grant me the PURRrenity

 

😄 ***]


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😴  Rest well and let go of any worries, for tomorrow holds NEW possibilities.

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

It is about 11:30am ET for me here in Cave Spring, Virginia. 64 degrees!!!  💃💃💃

 

Tonight is usually my Dumpster, Mailbox and Stop By Mr. No Name's Mansion on Ms. Geraldine's Front Porch. Mr. No Name is a stray cat who refuses to be adopted but luved by us all in his neighborhood. But it has been days of rain. So Monday Night I will do this. Suppose to be NO RAIN.  💃💃💃

 

Lol, laughing - but so NOT funny. I had gotten ALL EXCITED when I saw my Neighbors from H.ll get into their guest's car with their guests. Well, the female guest and kid just started to do her Project Over My Head. I am guessing kid acted up and they decided to drop them off. It is a VERY OLD building, built in the 70's and they KNOW that it CREAKS really badly when they rock back and forth.  🙄🙄🙄  It amazes me the HOURS they rock back and forth to p.ss me off. Oh well, not too much longer for me to move...  👍👍👍  And my FAVORITE radio station is on blast which p.sses them off.

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Luv you all,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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😴  Sending you a virtual hug to wrap you in warmth and comfort. Have a peaceful night.

 

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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Cadee @Cadee2719 and Allen @Therapist4u I feel just the way you BOTH feel. In my opinion, Cadee - you and your neighbors will have to make sure you guys CONTINUE to be SAFE. I have cop friends and unfortunately as we already KNOW criminals exist EVERYWHERE, even cops.

 

[1] Keep your eyes and ears OPEN AT ALL TIMES. Nip crime in the bud BEFORE it takes over.

 

[2] Cadee took her time and made sure she was NOT moving into ANOTHER unsafe environment. But that can CHANGE if everyone is not GUARDING this safety.

 

[3] Allen, me and you will one day be SAFE like Cadee NOW IS!!!  💃💃💃

 

Luv you BOTH,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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How are you guys doing?  🤔

 

Well, today was "suppose" to be my LAST Peaceful Retirement Day Of The Week but my Neighbor From Hell's guests arrived last night. So it will be an ALL DAY RADIO STATION on "blast" unless they leave like their hosts did for work. Kind of surprised as it is NOT Memorial Day as yet!!! Anyway, much as I HATE "loud" music, it has HELPED me to maintain my SANITY until I can move. Headphones are NOT an option = I need to be on alert in my neighborhood as it goes downhill. Hey Ms. Idaho @Cadee2719 , soon I will be like you = in a safer environment!!!  💃💃💃

 

Everyone, FIND YOUR PEACE TODAY.

 

Luv you guys,

Nicole  🤗🤗🤗

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(1comment) CADEE HERE IS A COPY OF WHAT ALLEN WROTE TO YOU IN ANOTHER MEMBER'S DISCUSSION IN CASE YOU WANT TO REPLY TO HIM IN THIS DISCUSSION. NO PRESSURE AS USUAL TO REPLY. NICOLE  🤗🤗🤗

 

[*** ALLEN @Therapist4u wrote:

Hi @Cadee2719

You’re very welcome!

 

While my time on this AARP site is very limited, I wanted to let you know I appreciate much of what you have written over time.

 

In particular, when you said about: “I am sad that my beautiful neighborhood in California became a haven for the homeless, crime and fear” That has also happened to where I’ve lived in my present home...the 1st one I bought, decades ago.

All the good friends I’ve had have either moved... or passed on! The condos changed from mostly owner-occupied who were actively engaged in fixing issues & improving it, ... to mostly renters who don’t care about anything ...not to be helpful, or trying to be friendly, or civil or respectful!

 

But also the part where you mentioned that:

“I feel safe, I am in a community of kind and helpful people, love my new home,  am able to go any where I want and not be afraid”....

is encouraging ....& I’ve been on a slow path (takes so much time...especially finding the right contractors...& BEAUCOUPS of money.... as you know...LOL) to remodeling ....in order to sell,... & move to a similar situation as you have! 🙂

 

IMHO: you definitely earned that... by your hard work.... & persistence!

Take care ~Allen ***]


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 Thank You Allen.  I think AARP should address this issue.  People being pushed out of their homes because of the crime, robberies and killings.  What do they do?  Where do they go?  My 80 year old neighbor was killed.  The homes in my neighborhood (a community that was safe for the 46 years that I lived there) are being robbed in the DAYLIGHT with people in them!!!  The

community I lived in was safe for all the years I  lived there,  yet the homeless and the criminals control the area.  The politicians focus on the homeless and do nothing for the taxpayers.  Laws protect the criminals and it was unsafe to go grocery shopping or leave the house.  Yet, all you ever hear about are the homeless.  I am certain that I am not the only elderly person that had to deal with this and yet we hear nothing from AARP.  Yes, to pick up my life at the age of 80 and move to another state to FEEL SAFE was the hardest thing I have ever done.  My son was kind enough to do the same and for that I am appreciative.  The impetus was the deaths of my son and husband.  I promised my husband I would move and I did.  Each day I feel as if I died and went to heaven.  Life is good here.  I am safe, go anywhere I want to go, have neighbors that are kind and helpful and am able to sleep at night.  I can't tell anyone what they should do, but I can say to explore the possibilities and do what is necessary to make you happy and safe.  It is sad that this is an issue in today's society, but let's not "pretend", put our heads in the sand and ignore the realities.  

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