I understand your situation. Yes, I dreaded every time my friend called. Finally, she didn't something that I believed unforgivable and I bailed out. She apologized, but I was done because she had done the same thing two years prior. We were so close that I included her in my trust as a co-trustee. Now I have to update the trust and remove her name.
As if that is not enough, I have a 20-year-old relative who thinks she can live in my house without paying for anything. The requirement is for her to pay for utilities. But her excuse is that she lives in one room, which means she doesn't use much. She doesn't think living room or kitchen or laundry facilities, transportation, etc. are worth any consideration.
It's easy to turn one's back on a friend, but a relative living in the same house?
Wanjiru Warama