Hello! Hope you're doing well and in good spirits. Just wanted to let you know you are not alone. I'm in the same boat and this Covid pandemic isn't helping lol. I've tried the .coms site for people over 50 but didn't see anyone that fit the bill. Don't lose hope your special someone will soon appear.
Are you maybe trying too hard to find someone? A person can do that without even realizing that.
I've always found the best people to meet are the ones who surprise you in the most surprising places and when you are least likely to be looking.
You might try hanging around places that attract the same kind of person you are seeking...like if you're a real bookworm try a bookstore, if you are into the coffee craze try a coffeehouse, if you are into travel sign up for a singles trip or cruise. Hope these suggestions stir up some ideas for you. Good Luck and have fun!