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I can understand how overwhelming this situation can be, and it's commendable that you’re seeking the best for your parents. One approach you might consider is incorporating principles from the Genki System, which emphasizes holistic health and well-being. This can be beneficial not just for your parents, but for you as well, as you navigate these decisions.
For resources, start by looking into local aging services in Florida, such as the Department of Elder Affairs, which can provide information about programs and benefits. You may also want to connect with local Area Agencies on Aging; they often have valuable resources and can help guide you through available options.
When it comes to in-home care, it's essential to do thorough background checks on caregivers. Look for agencies that are licensed and have positive reviews. Consider asking for recommendations from friends or local community groups.
In terms of reverse aging, programs focusing on physical and mental well-being can make a difference in your parents’ quality of life. Activities that promote social interaction, nutrition, and exercise can greatly enhance their overall health and potentially slow the aging process.
Lastly, consulting with an elder law attorney might help clarify any contracts or agreements to ensure your parents are protected. There are also various support groups and online forums where you can connect with others in similar situations for guidance and support. You're not alone in this, and I hope you find the resources that will best support your family!
I would add ... a key to this is that two of my sisters, while working full time, are in the same city as my parents and are there routinely. As we needed to increase care, referrals from existing caregivers with whom we had a high degree of trust were extremely valuable -- that really helps with the challenge of bringing someone new into the home.
Hi Dawn -- my parent's stated desire it to die in their home so my sisters and I have worked together to try & make that happen. We've had great success finding an amazing team of caregivers to help provide the at home care. I'm happy to share what we learned along the way. We wanted to ensure the caregivers were earning a more sustainable wage so went with broker services such as CaregiverConnection and CareLinx. And have found excellent caregivers through both. We still did our own reference checks and then had them meet my mom and dad before we hired them. They now feel like part of the family and we have an extremely high trust and confidence level. My husband's family also found caregivers through the "agencies" (companies) including ComfortKeepers and VisitingAngels.
I don't think we knew about the consultants that are available to help you sort this (saw the emails below). In our case that wasn't needed, we already had power of attorney and medical directives, and updated will/trust taken care of and those roles sorted. Our big issue was finding the at home care -- esp as my mom needs 24 hour care. Hope this is helpful to you.
Hi Dawn; I admire you for being concerned and caring enough to step forward. In my work as a Personal Organizer & Daily Money Manager, way too often I see our elderly forgotten and neglected by family. So first of all kudos to you!! I would advise talking to your parents as to their wishes and if their wishes are to downsize, stay in place, or a living facility that will dictate your next actions. I will suggest that you have a professional help you in which ever direction you go. If I can help/advise in any way please reach out and I will do my best. I work with an array of professionals and perhaps there is a connection that will help you and your parents.
Do your parents have a written trust, or have they told you specifically whether they prefer to stay in their home vs. going to an assisted living facility? I would follow their desires as much as you can (my parents have it in writing that they want to stay at home, unless that becomes impossible due to medical care issues).
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