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    <title>topic Do’s and Don’ts for Caregivers at the Holiday Dinner Table - #5 in Leave a Caregiving Tip</title>
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    <description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;Don’t say: “You should visit more often.”&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;As many of us can attest, guilt is a powerful motivator. But it also creates unpleasant feelings. Even if the brothers do come back before the next holiday, they will do so reluctantly — fearful that they’ll get another guilt-inducing lecture. In the end, they will find reasons to stay away.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Excerpt by&amp;nbsp;&lt;A href="https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/experts/info-2019/barry-jacobs.html?intcmp=AE-CAR-EOA-BIO" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noopener noreferrer noopener noreferrer noopener noreferrer noopener noreferrer"&gt;Barry Jacobs&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
    <pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2020 18:16:56 GMT</pubDate>
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      <title>Do’s and Don’ts for Caregivers at the Holiday Dinner Table - #5</title>
      <link>https://community.aarp.org/t5/Leave-a-Caregiving-Tip/Do-s-and-Don-ts-for-Caregivers-at-the-Holiday-Dinner-Table-5/m-p/2362770#M131</link>
      <description>&lt;P&gt;&lt;STRONG&gt;Don’t say: “You should visit more often.”&lt;/STRONG&gt;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;As many of us can attest, guilt is a powerful motivator. But it also creates unpleasant feelings. Even if the brothers do come back before the next holiday, they will do so reluctantly — fearful that they’ll get another guilt-inducing lecture. In the end, they will find reasons to stay away.&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&amp;nbsp;&lt;/P&gt;
&lt;P&gt;&lt;EM&gt;Excerpt by&amp;nbsp;&lt;A href="https://www.aarp.org/caregiving/experts/info-2019/barry-jacobs.html?intcmp=AE-CAR-EOA-BIO" target="_blank" rel="noopener nofollow noopener noreferrer noopener noreferrer noopener noreferrer noopener noreferrer"&gt;Barry Jacobs&lt;/A&gt;&lt;/EM&gt;&lt;/P&gt;</description>
      <pubDate>Wed, 23 Dec 2020 18:16:56 GMT</pubDate>
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      <dc:creator>AARPMichaelP</dc:creator>
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