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Retirees, When Are You Giving Up Driving? 👴👵

Anonymous — Sat, 26 Jun 2021 18:09:26 GMT

Discussion created on April 18, 2021.
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Anonymous — Sun, 13 Jun 2021 19:37:11 GMT

💥April 18, 2021💥

Me, would like to do it NOW at age 63, but luv seeing my old lady (2006 Hyundai Elantra) parked out front = my ESCAPE from my upstairs neighbors from HELL/lol. Once I find a Tiny Cottage to rent in Salem, Virginia, I will probably turn my keys in when she dies of old age. Driving STRESSES me out here. Folks riding your BUMPER. Over the years (started driving at age 18 in St. Louis, Missouri - Honda Civic Hatchback), I have been REAR ENDED and not my fault. No speeding tickets. Lol, got pulled over and WARNED as soon as I drove the car off the lot. That SCARED me enough. Grateful cop knew it was an innocent mistake.

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postman29 — Sun, 18 Apr 2021 16:04:53 GMT

Being 63 this year myself I feel I have many more good years to go. At least until my wife tells me to stop.

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Anonymous — Sun, 13 Jun 2021 19:37:31 GMT

💥April 18, 2021💥

Hi @postman29 lol, yes, she wants to make sure you stick around. Thanks for stoppibg by to join our discussion 🙂

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DeahWA — Sun, 18 Apr 2021 16:22:32 GMT

St Louis??!! Me too!! @Anonymous

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DeahWA — Sun, 18 Apr 2021 16:24:30 GMT

They will have to pry my cold dead hands off my Mazda hatchback's stick shift. LOL

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zephyr321215 — Tue, 27 Apr 2021 16:44:38 GMT

I love driving so it will be a bummer when I have to do so. Sixty five and still drive a motorcycle too. My dad is 90 and still driving, though mostly during the day and around town. He doesn't like to drive new places far away, which is probably a good idea.

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Anonymous — Sun, 13 Jun 2021 19:36:50 GMT

💥April 27, 2021💥

Hi @zephyr321215 thank you for stopping by to join our discussion 🙂 🙂 🙂

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GailL1 — Tue, 27 Apr 2021 17:43:13 GMT

I don't drive much now. My car is older than yours, @Anonymous now - 2001 Honda Accord EX, purchased it new in 2001 and now has 130,000 miles.

Guess I will stop driving when and if I become a safety hazard or I can no longer find my keys or maybe the actual car. So far, so good. I go a few places and all those places only allows me to do right hand turns; that way hopefully, I won't slow down anybody else by me trying to turn left.

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jacksc01 — Fri, 02 Jul 2021 14:24:35 GMT

I am currently 64 this year. I know my mom had dementia and we had to hide her car keys so that she would no longer drive but we kept her car for her until she passed away because it always seem to comfort her that she could look out the window and see that her car was still there. I drive very little since retirement. I have only put 7,000 miles on my car that I purchased brand new. in 2012. I think when it gets to point that I am behind the wheel and start not knowing exactly where I am - that will be a sign to me that I need to give up the keys.

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Anonymous — Fri, 02 Jul 2021 14:42:24 GMT

💥Friday - July 2, 2021💥

Thank you so much for stopping by to join our discussion @jacksc01 😁 Have awesome day/night!

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fffred — Wed, 21 Jul 2021 13:24:10 GMT

@DeahWA Hooray for stick shifts! I miss mine, I gave that up when I realized that wife was not going to be able to drive that in the event of a road emergency (eg: I become ill while driving in the boonies, she wouldn't be able to drive stick).

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ToniS570313 — Tue, 17 Aug 2021 23:55:10 GMT

I'm not, they gonna have to make me stop,,,LOL

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SummerOnTheWay1 — Mon, 22 Apr 2024 00:08:40 GMT

Lol, when I cannot SEE or REMEMBER where I am going! 🤣😂

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WebWiseWoman — Thu, 07 Sep 2023 23:49:22 GMT

How 'bout when I made this tough decision? When I may not realize danger to others?

A wonderful elderly lady basically mowed down a junior hs track team, unwittingly, due to lose of dexterity/sight/response time.

In 1986 I was DUIed following office party and meds; both the officer and supervisor were very nice and even mentioned I could be their spouse... hours later a DUI murdered a motorcyclist on the 91 due to dui; I felt she might have been me had I not been stopped.

When I realized I could no longer see 180 degrees while driving, not could I realize which speed was appropriate I stopped driving.

It's been an extreme inconvenience, but I feel I've made the right decision. I so hope others will recognize when they should stop driving.

Just as too many young drivers have caused rampant collisions lately, we older need to lead by example...

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SummerOnTheWay1 — Sun, 15 Mar 2026 00:33:11 GMT

📎 Made it to 2025 at age 67, still driving and HOPE to continue for more years.

I may NOT use my 2006 Hyundai Elantra that much anymore, but I am SO GRATEFUL to have her.

And MORE GRATEFUL to still have my Driver's License.

Nothing against UBER, but.....

Take care,

Nicole 👵

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AdelaB170309 — Thu, 01 May 2025 04:35:20 GMT

This is a very cool option, but we have to drive it under the premise of ensuring our safety.

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AdelaB170309 — Thu, 01 May 2025 04:42:01 GMT

In fact, we can clearly know whether we can still drive, so when we know that we can no longer drive the car perfectly, we must stop in time.

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MitchellE771402 — Sun, 01 Jun 2025 01:29:04 GMT

I am only 62 but my mother is 89 and we have had recent discussions about taking the keys away. For now, she is still driving but limits her driving to perfect conditions - broad daylight with no rain/snow. Never at dusk or dawn or at night. The neighbors have followed her home at times and said that while she isn't setting any speed records she is driving safely. She also accepts offers to go into town with others instead of driving herself. My fear is that we obviously cannot wait until she is unable to drive to take her keys away. She seems to see well at a distance but struggles reading simple things up close, like the gas gauge. I say that because it is clear now her eyesight will be the driving force in the decision.

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WebWiseWoman — Sun, 01 Jun 2025 13:19:45 GMT

This is a hard decision but my adult children finally convinced me; perhaps it was COVID, but I think it was just I needed their opinions... perhaps that's all your mother needs is people speaking with her and being honest?

I'm sorry this is happening to her but if you feel okay with it, please convey, I'm with her on no longer driving; it's hurtful and painful, and I wish I still could.

But I still strongly believe when we lose our responsiveness, we need to stop.

Please, other Seniors, please stop driving when these issues become hard; not apparent, but hard.

Thank you in advance!