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🥳💃 Tell Us About YOUR GOOD days! And YES, we will have a FEW SOME weeks.

Anonymous — Sun, 04 Jun 2023 17:54:37 GMT

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(1) Read OTHER members' GOOD days, celebrate with them (leave a comment). 🥳💃

(2) WE need to CELEBRATE our GOOD days so WE get more! 💃🥳

(3) WE want to hear from U! 🙃

Grief & Loss Team 🤗🤎

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MarcyW882921 — Wed, 08 Feb 2023 21:33:39 GMT

When you are trying to deal with your grief, things that seem small to other people are huge to us! I'm so happy that you had a smooth trip on the way to Walmart and while you shopped! It's terrific to have something to put in the "grateful for" column. 🙂

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MarcyW882921 — Sat, 25 Feb 2023 21:35:13 GMT

Yesterday I had an appointment to deal with financial issues associated with my loss. These kinds of appointments have always been stressful for me, so I put time in my schedule to go to a local garden/museum when I finished. It worked out perfectly. I was recognized by an employee, a volunteer stopped to talk with me, strangers said hello, and I was in a beautiful, peaceful environment. The awareness of things I know cause stress gives me an opportunity to try an find a counter balance or to attempt to alter my response.

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Anonymous — Fri, 05 May 2023 00:10:48 GMT

1 comment (WEDNESDAY 3/1/23)

When I first moved into my cute Studio Apartment in 2018, I use to DREAD the arrival of ALL 4 school busses at the entrance of the complex where I am. 🙄 Between the "beep, beep and beep" as they backed up, loud kids and me not being able to sleep at nights - I was one CRANKY old lady. 😱 TODAY as I had my one window open on this "early" Spring day (63° and sunny), the "beep, beep and kids chattering" was a REMINDER that life is so good. Yes folks, I "think" the SHOCK of losing my neighbor and friend in his 70's to cancer "suddenly" is beginning to thaw. I still miss my dear sweet John, a veteran and an awesome person. Lol, I now "smile" when the 1st Bus arrives in the morning = time to get up and "wave" at the little darlings as they head to school. 😉 How are you TODAY?

Luv you ALL, Nicole 🤎🤗

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MarcyW882921 — Thu, 02 Mar 2023 21:13:07 GMT

Yes it's true kids chattering is a reminder of life that is going on with or without us. It is also a positive thing that the kids are going to school, talking to one another, and may even be enthusiastic. I love that you are giving the kids a smile and a wave as they head off to school. You may be the only person who is starting their day off in a positive way...we just don't know.

I'm sorry about the loss of your neighbor and missing him is what a friend who loved him does.

All in your own time Nicole. Thanks for sharing with us today!

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Anonymous — Fri, 05 May 2023 00:10:24 GMT

1 comment (THURSDAY 3/2/23)

Marcy @MarcyW882921 it is ALWAYS so good to hear from you!!!

Just so you know, your post warmed my "insides"...

Nicole 🤎🤗

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MarcyW882921 — Thu, 02 Mar 2023 21:33:32 GMT

I'm so glad! 🙂

Marcy

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Anonymous — Sun, 26 Mar 2023 02:18:17 GMT

1 comment (SUNDAY 3/5/23)

Anyone believe in the LAW OF ATTRACTION? 🤔

I do!!! 🖐

August 2022, LAST year, I lost my neighbor and friend to cancer. 😭

My world fell apart, I was "crying" EVERY day when his brother stopped by to tell me. JOHN never made it back from the Veteran's Hospital.

TODAY my life's season (lol, not the weather seasons) CHANGED because of this AWESOME "article" I found 2/24/23:

📋 How to Use the Law of Attraction with Depression » The Depression Warriors.

🗣 By SARAH DAWN. AUGUST 23, 2021. UPDATED MARCH 3, 2023.

👉LINK TO ONLINE INFORMATION

Life in my opinion is like the weather. WE have our Winters which I have been in for 7 months. It took getting TIRED OF BEING TIRED emotionally for me to go online and search for Success Stories. Folks who had OVERCOME their WINTERS.

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Luv you ALL! 🤗🤎

Nicole 🙃

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MarcyW882921 — Sun, 05 Mar 2023 21:37:16 GMT

Thanks for sharing! I'm glad you found this article and it has inspired a positive change for you. Decide on your intention, state it, and go for it! 🙂

Marcy

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Anonymous — Sun, 30 Apr 2023 13:59:28 GMT

4 comments (TUESDAY 3/7/23)

I "think" we have an EARLY Spring here in Virginia and so far NO snow for my area! 🥳💃

Sitting in front of my one "window" in my very CUTE Studio Apartment, gazing out at the MOUNTAINS while I contemplate how far I have traveled in my HEALING.

Luv you ALL,

Nicole 🤗🤎

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MarcyW882921 — Wed, 08 Mar 2023 16:13:45 GMT

It sounds like a good day! Seeing and appreciating the beauty of nature and realizing the accomplishments in your healing journey.

Marcy

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GaPeach72 — Fri, 10 Mar 2023 13:43:56 GMT

Besides the very early Spring we have been blessed with in Georgia, every morning and all day, I have a mockingbird that sits in a tree in my backyard and sings. There is beauty in this fallen world!

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MarcyW882921 — Fri, 10 Mar 2023 18:23:52 GMT

I love these encounters with birds! They all have such unique songs that they sing. They make me pause and think about what they might be communicating and to appreciate the beauty of their songs. There was a bird singing his little heart out on two different days this week from a light pole above the tennis courts.

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GaPeach72 — Fri, 10 Mar 2023 19:05:06 GMT

I love to watch and listen to birds! I have several feeders in my backyard so I have quite a variety!!! Believe it or not, an owl lives near me and sometimes at night I hear it hooting by my window! Love it!!!

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Anonymous — Fri, 05 May 2023 00:09:06 GMT

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I am SO GRATEFUL my only child has blossomed in spite of her father's death. TODAY she is attending a conference in COLD Missouri, lives in Florida. She luvs these YEARLY NSBE conferences which are hosted at different locations each year.

Nicole 🤎🤗

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MarcyW882921 — Thu, 23 Mar 2023 15:21:44 GMT

Children can be resilient! Celebrate that you as her Mom were there for her and created an environment that was conducive to her thriving and blossoming. Now you get to relax a little and enjoy being the proud Mom of a happy, successful daughter!

Marcy

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MarcyW882921 — Thu, 23 Mar 2023 15:49:01 GMT

I went to a group yesterday and there was some discussion about grief. Some people describe it as diminishing over time and others say the grief remains constant and we grow around it. As we are in the process of discovering who we are following our loss, it is something to think about.

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Anonymous — Fri, 05 May 2023 00:09:37 GMT

1 comment (3/23/23)

Thanks Marcy @MarcyW882921 . We had A LOT of heated discussions about WHY her father was NEVER there for her. Lol, some days she wanted ZERO to do with me as she felt I was not ACKNOWLEDING her anger. Well, last month I finally FIGURED OUT 🙄 how to bring in a flag of peace/lol. Told her I KNOW he was a drug addict/dealer, lived in the Florida jail (total embarrassment for her as of course they now post everything online), I left him to raise her on my own. She was being bombarded with HIS family telling her she SHOULD be in his life! 😤 Anyway, he died last year - yes, caught COVID in jail.

May he rest in peace, Nicole 🤎🤗

➡️@MarcyW882921 wrote:
Children can be resilient! Celebrate that you as her Mom were there for her and created an environment that was conducive to her thriving and blossoming. Now you get to relax a little and enjoy being the proud Mom of a happy, successful daughter!

Marcy⬅️

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MarcyW882921 — Thu, 23 Mar 2023 18:34:58 GMT

You have definitely been in and now hopefully through a war zone. I hope your flag of peace will be long lasting and bring you and your daughter much happiness.

Marcy

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MarcyW882921 — Sat, 25 Mar 2023 17:24:17 GMT

Yesterday I went to a water aerobics class. Being with people, hearing the music, feeling the warmth and buoyancy of the water, and getting the physical benefits of movement all facilitate positive feelings. Two particular songs seemed to resonate with the bird population as well because they were singing their own individual songs in a beautiful chorus! Their contributions to the class made our smiles a little bigger!