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Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

AARPTeri — Mon, 01 Jun 2026 15:05:53 GMT

Week 1: What’s one small win you have had this week and one thing that’s been harder than expected? Short answers welcome! Jump in even if you’re just getting started!

Want to join the challenge? Here’s the URL:https://www.aarp.org/rewards/earn/socialchallenge/

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

TNTMOM — Mon, 01 Jun 2026 14:45:27 GMT

Excited about the challenge and it is coming at a good time... It has been difficult to maintain my friendships while caring for my 90 year old father and at the same time experiencing my only child (now high school graduate) leaving home.

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

TNTMOM — Mon, 01 Jun 2026 16:52:48 GMT

I learned in one of the videos about something called Social Anxiety Disorder... and how common it is that people have a "fear of rejection" - curious if anyone within this conversation experiences this and if you have tips to overcome it. ??

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AlbertC608581 — Mon, 01 Jun 2026 22:29:01 GMT

I'm excited to spend time with dear friends on a Museum and Lunch outing later this week.

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

TNTMOM — Tue, 02 Jun 2026 14:26:50 GMT

It's always so nice to have something to look forward to --- enjoy!

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

myndstate — Tue, 02 Jun 2026 23:10:10 GMT

One small win I have had this week is finding a bag of Hershey's kiss in the refrigerator!
One thing that's been harder than expected is losing the feeling of alienation at the church I attend.

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

MarieN48752 — Thu, 04 Jun 2026 12:57:29 GMT

I saw Canadian geese with babies.

Hard: Not hearing from my daughter

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

TNTMOM — Thu, 04 Jun 2026 13:38:06 GMT

Thanks for sharing, Marie. Do you reach out to your daughter on the channel that she prefers? For example, my young adult son responds to a text message but rarely picks up the phone. Hang in there!

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

SusanG75864 — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 15:11:33 GMT

One win: My daughter is so busy she seldom visits so I texted her to ask if I could come over on a day convenient to her. We set up a time and I arrived by the ADA bus service. We had a good day.

Challenge: Went to icecream social at my complex. Tried to converse with others. Washington Freeze hard to overcome. Hard to make friends. I will keep trying.

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

SusanG75864 — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 15:21:45 GMT

I know what you mean about feeling alienation at your church. I joined a new church when I moved. People were friendly and welcoming and pastor was kindly and wise. Then he retired and new pastor began. One of his first sermons was about the sin of living a gay life. I am not gay but the sudden non-inclucividity of his sermon totally turned me off. I did not go back. A disappointment.

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

SusanG75864 — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 15:33:43 GMT

I think most of us experience this. In the main, I have found it helpful to join a to just join in a weekly group activity and try to meet friends that way. It is hard going sometimes, but if you keep at it, you might find a potential person who wants a friend too.

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SheilaG623510 — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 16:02:41 GMT

I enjoy talking the ladies where I do volunteer work once a week.

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SereneSeagull — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 16:55:31 GMT

Yep, @SusanG75864 I absolutely detest the obnoxiously pious who preach to love all and cast stones while they do it.

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

deborahc358885 — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 17:28:36 GMT

Win: Setting up dinner out with my children.

Hard: Not getting answers to an ongoing medical issue

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

SereneSeagull — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 17:30:00 GMT

@TNTMOM I’ve developed over time, an I-Don’t-Care-attitude about this.

Everyone cannot be liked by all. It’s just the way it is. To try and attain that, in my opinion, is a waste of time. If someone doesn’t like the way I am, thats on them, not me. It’s not going to get me upset, because it’s ok. Not everyone is everyone else’s bag.

Baskin Robins has a large amount of different flavors, right? So too, with people. One gravitates to whom they have common interests, etc…

I belong to a gym and attend various classes. When I see a new person I try and make a point of going up to them and introducing myself. I will also try and introduce them to the other people or those standing next to the new person. I enjoy myself and honesty don’t care what others think of how intense I am in my strength training workouts, or adding flare to my dance moves. It’s the I-Don’t-Care-What-Others-Think attitude. And those who enjoy being with you and accept you for you, are the keepers in life.

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

SereneSeagull — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 17:32:48 GMT

Exactly how I look at it, @SusanG75864 .

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ThomasM268752 — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 18:29:40 GMT

I just scheduled an orientation for new volunteers at a local agency. I am a bit nervous but am excited to give back and hopefully help others while also meeting new people.

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

lindag382050 — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 20:53:18 GMT

Went to a meeting by myself - I usually would go to a table that did not have anyone at the table - today I went to a table that had 2 women sitting at the table and sat down and introduced my self to them. As it turned out they had not introduced themselves to each other prior to my sitting down and introducing myself. A win for all!

Re: Social Challenge: Week 1 One Small Win!

RodW461225 — Fri, 05 Jun 2026 23:36:04 GMT

Beat Vally Fever!