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RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement?

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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by KidBoy2

Unfortunately, many people avoid thinking about all negative things that could or will happen to to all of us eventually, so they don't have LTC insurance, a Will, advanced medical directive, or POA. The foolish thing is that ignoring these things won't stop them from happening, and if you haven't taken care of them, it only makes it a lot tougher & more expensive on you, and/or family members who have to jump in to help!


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RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement?

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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by SLEEPERCELL

 

If people that have assets they do not want to sell to pay for their long term care they should but a LTC policy.

 

The problem is many feel that they will never end up in a nursing home, do not want to spend the money even when they can afford it or think that its up to the government to shoulder the costs. 

 

Its a problem that most politicians do not want to address.

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RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement?

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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by SLEEPERCELL

How contradictory is it to say that someone has to hide their assets, so the government will pay for them to be in a care facility .. why shouldn't they use those assets to pay for themselves in the first place?! When they run out, then the government can pay into the future.


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RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement?

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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by ASTRAEA

Never said you did nor would I imply that--- whether your Grandmother or your Aunt.

"What I find particularly disturbing is for seniors that must go into an assisted living or nursing home environment is that they must strip themselves of their wealth and lifetime assets that they have accumulated. It's an ugly game being played."

More than half of all Americans cannot afford ANY nursing home expense and many of those that do rely upon the "no assets prior" game that they must play to seek waivers and assistance. This is not an anomaly by any sense.

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RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement?

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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by SLEEPERCELL

I'm confused about what you said, not about Medicaid. When my grandmother had a series of strokes in her late 80s, we cared for her at home with an LPN 40 hrs/week. We never expected taxpayers to pay to take care of our family members.


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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by ASTRAEA

IF you're confused I suggest you consult the state you live. Their payouts in Medicaid and waivers suggest New Jersey is an above average welfare state. But beyond NJ--- there is a clear picture that 32 States are using Medicaid waivers that indicates many people cannot afford to pay for nursing home care at $8,000 per month. That would mean that slightly more than half of all US taxpayers cannot afford to pay the $8,000 per month for this kind of care.  Count your blessings!

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RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement?

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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by SLEEPERCELL

I'm still confused; why would you question whether my aunt paid all her bills or not? Why shouldn't she, if she could afford it?

I also don't know what the Medicaid waiver plan is about either. People who can afford to pay for the services they get, shouldn't be taking advantage of supplemental programs that specifically help people who can't afford critical services.


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RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement?

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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by ASTRAEA

Then you should know that "Thirty-two U.S. states pay for care in assisted living facilities through their Medicaid waiver programs"

New Jersey is one of the members of such waivers

Why are you perplexed at what I wrote?

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RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement?

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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by SLEEPERCELL

Absolutely; why wouldn't she have paid ALL of her bills?!

Once she went into the nursing home, I handled her finances. Not only did she pay the basic bills for the facility, but paid out-of-pocket for PT 5x/week because it wasn't covered by her HMO. I also made sure the little luxuries were covered for her .. that she wouldn't have treated herself to .. salon & manicures .. I just told her she could afford it & never mentioned how much they cost; she really did deserve that!


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RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement?

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In Response to RE: How much do you need for a comfortable retirement? by ASTRAEA

Did she pay ALL her bills?