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Super Social Butterfly
Posts: 579
Registered: ‎07-23-2010

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 71 of 127 (1,792 Views)

Depends on what shape I am in at the time.

Info Seeker
Posts: 3
Registered: ‎08-01-2014

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 72 of 127 (1,801 Views)

Absolutely!   I fully believe that I have the right to choose when I depart & will do so when the conditions are not opportune for self sustained viability.   Otherwise, I intend to go, go, go until the engine slows down considerably.

 

Gold Conversationalist
Posts: 70
Registered: ‎10-29-2016

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 73 of 127 (1,819 Views)

As long as my cat wants to take care of me, I'm fine.

Info Seeker
Posts: 1
Registered: ‎03-05-2011

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 74 of 127 (1,830 Views)

   I believe one has to feel RELEVANT and have a CHALLENGE. When that dissipates say Bye Bye. Of course PAIN to a high degree with persistence can also roll-the-ball-into-the-hole also. Then they just dope-u-up and you fester on with no existence bascially. When you get old they plant you in a corner and juice-you-up till your **bleep** fails or more often, till you fall and break your pelvis. Getting old sucks so do it NOW. This is your last chance at being your best.

Super Social Butterfly
Posts: 667
Registered: ‎05-25-2016

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 75 of 127 (1,650 Views)

To me, "Life" is just another "event" to participate in or not. As long as your consciousness has a desire to participate in it, it wants to exist. Once your consciousness has less desire to participate, it has less desire to exist. Factors that effect that desire are both internal and external. The general well-being of your consciousness determines its desire to exist. And that changes constantly until it doesn't. Ever hear that saying that it's a woman's peragative to change her mind? Well, even if it subconscious, your Conscious/Subconscious/Soul does likewise. Sometime a little, sometime a lot. So, the only answer I can give is, "Ask me again when it matters.".

Info Seeker
Posts: 1
Registered: ‎02-07-2017

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 76 of 127 (1,471 Views)

I have suffered chronic nerve pain for 40 years. I am now 72 and the prospect of decades more pain is not very attractive. Both of my parents developed dementia at age 86 so the prospect of attainling that milestone is also unattractive. Time will tell how pleasant/unpleasant increasinlg age will be.

Bronze Conversationalist
Posts: 20
Registered: ‎09-08-2012

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 77 of 127 (1,384 Views)
I used to say I would probably live to be a 100 ( I am 81) but then i read an article about someone living to be 122 and 137. I am in good health with no life threatening problems. I set my goals farther ahead. I may not make it that far but I refuse to limit myself.
Gold Conversationalist
Posts: 69
Registered: ‎06-08-2013

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 78 of 127 (1,353 Views)

There is longevity on both sides of my family, with 8 people having lived from age 88 to 101.  At least 2 suffered from Alzheimer's, 3 from some form of dementia and the other 3 a number of various medical conditions.  I would like to look forward to living as long as I have relatively good health, can still function pretty much on my own and little to no memory loss.  Having watched both my father who had Alzheimer's and my Mom who is suffering serious dementia herself, I would not want this for myself.

Conversationalist
Posts: 8
Registered: ‎02-26-2017

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 79 of 127 (1,362 Views)

As long as I am both independent and healthy. If not, I would like to be given the same consideration that we give to our pets when they are suffering.

Conversationalist
Posts: 7
Registered: ‎01-16-2012

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 80 of 127 (1,386 Views)

I will be 72 in a couple of months and I still ride horses and walk and lift hay bales and saddle my own horse. I have had a very full and adventurous life and my husband, love of my life, went home to be with the Lord 3 years ago. I would like to make it to 80s if I am healthy and living well, but when it is my time I have no regrets of undone activities.