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Registered: ‎12-19-2011

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 21 of 127 (1,381 Views)

For me, this is a very complex question!  I am 71 and have been living with an advanced cancer that is considered "terminal" for over 13 years, which means 13 plus years of cancer treatment.  Though the cancer is fairly well controlled right now, I am tired!  Not an easy way to live.  I've done well enough to be considered an "exceptional responder".  My mother died from a different cancer at 69 and a year later my father, who had always been in extremely good health, had a major stroke and went on to spend the last 18 years of his life in a wheel chair with right side paralisis and unable to speak more than saying "yes" and "no", usually accurately.  It did not take long for me to realize that my mother had gotten the better deal!  My dad's family has been long lived for generations, with ancestors living unto their 90s and 100s in the 1700s.  My grandmother lived to be 102 after having been in a clinical trial for cancer in her 70s in the 1950s.  She still planted a small garden well into her 80s but the last ten years of her life, she had alot of cognative decline.  It's hard for me to imagine feeling well enough past 80 myself to make living enjoyable.  I have learned alot about what is truly important in my life and how to live in the moment.  I have to work at it to stay mobile and I can't travel as much as I had hoped to.  I am highly motivated to live long enough to vote in the 2020 Presidential election!  That is the thing outside my family that motivates me the most these days.  

 

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Registered: ‎06-22-2016

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 22 of 127 (1,019 Views)

89 is ok for me.  Beyond that, it would depend what the quality of my life would be.

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Registered: ‎10-30-2016

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 23 of 127 (1,067 Views)

Both of my grandmothers lived past 95 so I'm going for 100.  At 67 I've had 2 total knee replacements, and just retired from teaching.  I walk regularly, exercise at least 3 times a week, and enjoy yoga.  I have 4 kids and 8 grandkids and have been happily married for 47 years to my grade school sweetheart.  I would say I have been, and continue to be blessed with each new day.  If God calls me home before I'm 100 it's because my grandmas don't want me to break their record and want me to enjoy an even fuller life with them!

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Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 24 of 127 (1,238 Views)

100 as long as I'm healthy.

 

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Registered: ‎12-03-2011

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 25 of 127 (1,204 Views)

I hope to make it to 82, when my house will finally be paid off!  After that, it'll be a fight against Alzheimer's ... it's in the family Smiley Sad   So, I have to make the most of the next 15 years, if I make it THAT long!! 

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Registered: ‎12-31-2012

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 26 of 127 (1,170 Views)

I agree. I am 62, and I feel 25. Can't imagine checking out for many many years to come. 

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Registered: ‎12-31-2012

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 27 of 127 (1,156 Views)
I agree. I feel the same way!
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Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 28 of 127 (1,005 Views)

Long enough to see how my 5 grandchildren's lives turn out. They range from 13 down to 5 months. I am not leaving this world until I see how their stories turn out. I am 62 now..so atleast 100.

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Registered: ‎10-21-2015

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 29 of 127 (1,028 Views)

Good for you to have the desire to live to 100! Most of us have the "usual" (pains, various problems) if over 70, but we try to find the joy in everyday living. You are doing great. And 75 is the new 60. Haven't you heard?

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Registered: ‎10-21-2015

Re: How long do you want live? 80, 90, 100?

Message 30 of 127 (967 Views)

Yes. You do want to be around to be involved in many things like this. Think about the good stuff that is still with you. Sometimes it takes a lot, but try to find a little bit of joy in every day. Try to get a laugh every day (or at least a smile).